BTW, the pictures on the freezer door are of the baby. The one by itself is the picture right at embryo transfer on July 16. The four across the bottom are the last pictures I have of him/her. When I went in to confirm we had lost the baby on Sept 2, I asked Dr. B if he could take some pictures of the baby for me. Dr. B was so sweet and said yes while he patted me. He snapped four shots and gave them to me before we scheduled my DNC.
I am sure he sees this a lot. And, after 30 years of being in the fertility field, he acted like that was the first one he'd lost. Good man.